At such a young age, I always wanted to help and volunteer as much as I can in many different organizations. It is important to me and many people around the world to be able to provide help and service to those in need. It is sad when children and young adults do not take enough advantage of obtaining a good education. Malala loved going to school, but unfortunately suffered an attack because she went to school. She was shot in the head, neck, and shoulder. She miraculously survived and then created her foundation. There are many girls around the world that are not allowed to go to school and are limited to education. For this reason, I started my own fundraiser to change someone’s life for the better and you should join me too!
I am selling shirts from 1/22/2017 until 2/11/2017 11:59 p.m. All the money will go to Malala Fund.
If you do not want a t-shirt, or would like to donate money, you can help by donating to the available link.
“Let us make our future now, and let us make our dreams tomorrow’s reality.” – Malala Yousafzai
For all the couples out there, do not forget about your friends. Being too self involved with your pattern will break friendships and you might just become anti-social. Sometimes being too self involved in a relationship might make the breakup much painful than you would expect.
For all the singles out there, do not worry. Many people believe that being single is a bad thing, but I see it as the most amazing part of life. You are allowed to do what ever you want without having or creating drama with a love interest. You get to experience life and learn how to be independent.
I know many people who cannot live without a love interest by their side. To me it is sad, because one day that person will not be there for you. People change and so do feelings, and that is one of the reasons that it is hard for me to interact with someone. Never feel like you should be tied up to one person, because you are worth so much as an individual.
We reach to the teenage years and suddenly our whole lives change. We either become good or bad. We decide what the future holds for us. Life as a teen gets challenging when we enter high school. Either your friends change or you change. High school causes us stress and we do bad and wrong things because of peer pressure. During the three years that I have attended high school, I have never been peer pressured to do drugs, drink, smoke, or party. These things are probably things that you would like to experience. I’m not going to lie, but I would also like to experience these things at least once, because I feel that us teenagers go through phases that our parents will never understand. Our parents think that they are the only ones who have to live with troubles and worries, but so do we. We are constantly being shamed for who we might be. Being judged by multiple people is difficult, because we then start to allow our minds to believe that something is wrong with us.
Something I hate the most is when people say that I am “anti-social” or have an “attitude”. For starters I am not “anti-social”, I am friends with plenty of people who do not go to the same school I do. Second, just because I defend myself does not mean that I have an “attitude”. I am not going to apologize for being picky about who I hang out with, because I do not want to waste my time and energy in developing a friendship with someone who is not worth the time. I am so tired of being hurt by friends and I am pretty sure that many people can relate to this feeling. Do not say hurtful words to someone and not expect that person to say something back even if you may get offended. I do not understand why people think that it is okay to be so hurtful towards an innocent human being for no reason. Our world is already slowly being destroyed by the ignorance of humans, I do not think that we should waste our youth hurting feelings and destroying confidence and happiness.This year in high school, I feel like I am on my own.
The one thing that I hate about myself is that when someone becomes important to me, I am all about them. I love hard and in the end I always manage to get hurt. I know that I have this problem, so I try not to be open and attach myself to anyone. Hopefully I can control this when I become much older and start living life in the real world, but for now this is how I feel.
Oh relationships. They are like knives stabbing your heart. Relationships are something you can have if you are mentally and emotionally fine. If you have so many problems or super busy all the time, I wouldn’t suggest to be in a relationship. Being in a relationship takes a lot of patients and trust, so if you do not have both these qualities then do not hurt yourself in being in a relationship.
Relationships is about being with someone who makes you happy. This person loves to make you smile and loves you for you. It is not someone who enjoys hitting you. It is not someone who does not care about your feelings. It is not someone who abandons you when you are sad. You might think that “play fighting” is “goals”, but it is not. Play fighting leads to actually fighting, which will soon lead into domestic violence. You should never feel safe in the arms of someone who only loves you in certain periods of the day. You should be with someone who will want you at all times. Being self confident is amazing, but never bring it to the level were you become conceited, because your partner will feel some type of way. Love yourself, but love your partner too.
Having trust in your partner is a must! You should not get upset because your partner has male/female friends. If you know that your partner is the right person for you, then you should not worry. It is okay to have space with your partner, because you will never get bored or tired of your relationship. It is okay to explore by yourself to free the mind. Do not be in a relationship if arguing is the only you do in your relationship. Try and be independent, because not all relationships last.
You should never be with someone who talks to multiple people the way they talk to you. There are many people out there in the world who can see the beauty your partner does not. Second chances are okay, but a third chance? I don’t think so. Have self value. Do not be scared to start all over. Sometimes we have to go through certain relationships to learn how to be in others. Be a risk taker.
Be with someone who enjoys taking you out publicly and with someone who enjoys dates. Hooking up with someone and not defining the relationship will tear you apart. No one should feel like they are being used for pleasure. Be confident and say no. Live your life with friends who love you. Do not drink your nights away to avoid the pain. Stand up for yourself and put an end to the hurt. Do not commit yourself to someone who is not committed to you.
Do not ever feel like no one wants you. Maybe you have not met the one who is meant for you. Be patient and stay happy, because good things will come. Be prepared for the best and stay around positive vibes.